A Good Marriage, Cultivating Children and Establishing A Righteous Home – By Shaykh Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul Wāḥid – SalafiPublications Winter Conference 2024

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[24/12/2024] A Good Marriage, Cultivating Children and Establishing A Righteous Home – By Shaykh Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul Wāḥid – SalafiPublications Winter Conference 2024 – Masjid Salafi, Small Heath, Birmingham, UK.

Some points discussed during this lesson:
[Lesson One]

– The greatest trials faced by a Muslim in this life, especially in these lands.
– How social media beguiles the Muslim youth and leads them into lewdness and immorality.
– Some parents’ misguided aspirations for their children driven by their desire for status and wealth.
– The thing we should fear more than poverty.
– The manner in which the nations will gather upon this ummah, and the reason why.
– The delusion of those deceived by the western dream/lifestyle.
– Statements from non-Muslims regarding the degree to which feminism has brainwashed and indoctrinated women.
– Shepherding those we are responsible for.
– Three people Allāh will not look at on Yawmul-Qiyāmah, and three who will not enter Jannah.
– The stark difference between the youth in the time of the Ṣaḥābah and early Salaf and the youth of today.
– Muḥammad b. Qāsim’s (رحمه الله) conquering of Sind at the age of nineteen.
– The Golden Age of Islām, and the beginning of the decline of the ummah.
– A description of real men and women.
– How outer resemblance leads to inner resemblance.
– The duty upon parents to cultivate their children and the grave danger of sending them to state schools.

Some points discussed during this lesson:
[Lesson Two]
– The indoctrination and social engineering taking place in the education system, and its evil effects upon the Muslim youth.
– How science has been turned into a religion.
– Clear proof that the sun is in orbit around the earth, and the disbelief of the one who denies this.
– Teachings in Western education that contradict Islām.
– Closing the doors to zinā and what leads to it.
– The effects of sins.
– The best and worst of the women according to the sharī’ah.
– The responsibility of the parents to preserve their children and protect them from corruption.
– Having jealousy and honour for our womenfolk.
– The woman who will enter Paradise from whichever gate she wishes.
– The righteous women who are devoutly obedient to their husbands, and the example of Asmā’ b. Abī Bakr (رضى الله عنهما).
– Encouragement from the Messenger ﷺ to treat the women well and be patient with them.
– Shaykh al-Fawzān (حفظه الله) on how marriage helps to lower the gaze.
– The ḥalāl manner of approaching a woman for marriage.
– Encouragement for parents to start looking for spouses for their children early.
– How a man can ensure loyalty in his woman.
– Striving to earn and spend on our families and not look for handouts.
– A call to leave these lands of disbelief and make hijrah.
– The genocide that took place in Europe from 1992 to 1995.
– The only reason the Palestinians are being slaughtered today.
– How people are distracted by entertainment and women are fooled to believe they are “independent”.
– Those who will be gathered with the disbelievers on the Day of Resurrection.

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