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[22/10/2022] A Heartfelt Advice To Every Parent And Child – By Abu Idrees Muhammad Khān حفظه الله. Lesson at Markaz Mu’aadh Bin Jabal, Slough, UK.
Some points discussed during this lesson:
- Both the parents and the children have been commanded by Allāh.
- Allāh’s address to the parents.
- ‘Alī b. Abī Ṭālib, Ibn ‘Abbās, Mujāhid and Qatādah on the explanation of the verse, “O you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire whose fuel is men and stones…”
- The most beloved thing to parents, and their biggest fear.
- Following the way of the Prophets regarding the great concern they had for their children.
- The example of Ya’qūb on his deathbed and Luqmān regarding their concern for their children.
- A call to the children to understand that their parents are only advising them with what Allāh has commanded and it is not from themselves.
- A touching story highlighting the great concern ‘Abdullāh b. Ḥarām (the father of Jābir b. ‘Abdillāh) had for his children.
- The need for parents and children to be merciful to one another.
- The nature of parents regarding how they are affected by the pain and difficulties their children are going through.
- Proof from the Qur’ān and Sunnah for the obligation and great station of being dutiful to one’s parents.
- Finding common ground where our children feel comfortable to come to us.
- Not falling into despair when we are tested with our children.
- The necessity of being forgiving with our children, and not abandoning them when they fall short.
- A heartfelt appeal to the youth to return to the truth and go to their parents regarding whatever they are going through.
- The consequences of not showing mercy to our children.
- A call to the parents to be a support for their children, not an obstacle.
- A reminder that the Prophets were tested with loved ones.
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